Trained Early Childhood Creativity and intelligence

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Being a parent is no school.Learn from the experts can be a more appropriate way for parents caring for children.Starting from learning to know the development of the child,and understand the principles of positive parenting.With so parents are better able to support a positive stimulation for the child and overcome various obstacles in the development of the child.
What actual results can be achieved by understanding the science of parenting parents?Support the right of parents to help more optimal child development in the realm of physical-motor, psychosocial/personality,language skills,thinking,intelligence,and creativity.

Play Therapist and psychologist UI Institute for Applied Psychology,Dra Mayke S.Tedjasaputra,MSI,said,children will have the ability to think clearly critically,to speak the language of structured and creative if they are supported with the proper care of his parents.

How to become a positive parent?
1.Confidence and trust to the children grow
Mayke explain parents need to create a safe environment and support the children to explore.Because by getting both cases,the child may initiate steps to explore.

How,parents need to believe in themselves so it is not easy to worry.Then give also the trust and opportunity to children to try new things.
"Parents who fear their children sick, and limit its activity makes the child does not develop.Parents need to give the playground a safe and comfortable for the child can grow optimally in the physical environment and psikososialnya,"he continued.

2. Set aside time together
Healthy relationships and bonding with the child needs to be established and pursued by the parents.After all the attention and positive support from you to give confidence to the child.
How,search and create time to do activities together and communicate with the child.In this way children feel loved.Her confidence grew optimally with a specific time given parents to build relationships.

3. Be a role model
One of the parents' task is to inculcate positive values consistently.Children will grow to understand the meaning of responsibility if parents run a task with appropriate planting value.
The trick,give a good example and role model for children,give signs of what may and may not be done,and most importantly,intra-and inter-individual consistency.
"If parents get up early to get lazy,the child will imitate.So,be a good role model,"said Mayke.
As for consistency,make sure the father or mother is not influenced by emotion in giving signs to the child.Do not make children confused with a different attitude from his father and or mother,or inconsistencies both in running parenting. Children will become confused and anxious,which may be done and what is not.

4. Understanding child
Children will grow optimally if you get the understanding and the appropriate stimulation from their parents.Therefore parents need to recognize the advantages and disadvantages of children.
"Do not push children to be quiet,for example.Children three years old can sit still that's amazing,but do not force him,"said Mayke.
Stimulation of praise should also be given,but do not overdo it.Bring a sense of pride when your child succeed spend time getting food or achievement in school.But do not stop there,children also need support when it fails or even hesitate when doing something.Encouragement and positive support from parents helps the child's development.

5. Able to cope with stress
Positive parenting is the key to success is the ability of parents to cope with stress.Ability to cope with stress will affect communication with your child,become more positive.
How,parents need to learn to control themselves in dealing with emotions.If you feel the need to ask for help from an expert or do just relaxation and spiritual connection.
When facing problems,we recommend that parents need to focus on solutions and not run away from reality.Including when conflicts occur in pairs,then you should get up antarpasangan open communication. Create also open communication with people involved in parenting as a friend or parent.In addition to learning from the experience of others,you too can be at once united understanding of how parenting in the house so they can understand and follow while flying near your baby.
Finally,parents also need to continue to learn to recognize the advantages and disadvantages of self.Developing attitude to learn and willing to turn into a way to explore themselves more positively as a parent.